Taking a girl’s virginity is a popular male fantasy, but if they stopped to consider the reality of the situation, the fantasy might start to look more like a nightmare. It may be an ego boost to imagine being a girl’s first and taking her precious virginity, bookmarking yourself in the annexes of her mind forever.
1- There’s extra prep work
Unlike a more experienced woman, a virgin really doesn’t know what to expect. This means that you’re going to have to put in some effort before the deed is done and plan ahead to make sure that she’s comfortable and completely willing. It may take some considerable convincing on your part to get her into bed, and while that isn't one of our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin, your seduction skills will certainly be put to the test when it comes to taking a girl’s virginity. Also, the older she is, the harder it will be. If she has managed to protect her virginity all through high school and into her 20s, it will be that much more difficult to persuade her that she should give it up to you.
2- There’s a freak-out potential
When it comes to having sex with a virgin, the potential for her to freak out before, during or after the sex act is quite high. She may decide at the last minute that she doesn’t want to go through with it or she may feel massively guilty afterward for having done it. Because so much importance is put on her virginity, her first time is bound to be an emotional experience, which means that you might have to deal with panic, sadness, guilt, and other unpleasant reactions. She has probably imagined the event for a long time and wants it to go absolutely perfectly. If even the slightest thing doesn’t go according to plan, it could result in tears and tantrums. If you don’t like watching girls cry, don’t sleep with virgins. That’s a lot of pressure and that’s why it’s among our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin.
3- She’ll likely get attached
It is fairly likely that a recently devirginized girl will expect to have a lasting relationship with the guy that bedded her. If you’re not planning on becoming her boyfriend, or at least continuing to date her, don’t sleep with her. It’s really that simple. Very few girls imagine their first time with someone who drops off the face of the earth immediately afterward, never to be heard from again. She’s going to want you to stick around, so if a relationship is not in your plan, consider this point in our list of five reasons not to sleep with a virgin and find someone else to share your bed.
4- She lacks skills
Since she’s inexperienced, she’s probably not going to be that good in bed, and that’s a big reason not to sleep with a virgin. There are exceptions to this rule, of course, since there are plenty of skills a girl can learn before she loses her actual virginity. If, however, she has little experience with sexual activity in general, the encounter is not going to be all that pleasurable for you. If all you want is the power trip that comes from taking her virginity, then you’re golden, but if you want a mutually satisfying sexual experience, you should look for someone who has had time to develop some sexual skills.
5- It could get messy
There is a possibility that having sex with a virgin could literally make a mess of your sheets. Being penetrated for the first time is likely to hurt her and it could result in some bleeding. If the sight of blood makes you squeamish, devirginizing a girl is not for you. A woman’s first sexual experience can leave a very unsexy mess to clean up.
Sex Mistress say, As you can see, taking a girl’s virginity is not all that it’s cracked up to be. There are groundwork concerns, emotional issues, commitment questions, technique problems, and other more tangible messes to deal with. So perhaps you should leave the devirginizing to the high school boys and look for a sexual encounter that isn’t quite so complicated.
I WAS DISVIRGINED BY MY BOYFRIEND IN HIS FINAL YR IN THE UNIVERSITY,WHILE I WAS IN MY 3RD YEAR. WE DATED FOR 3YRS WITHOUT HAVING SEX HE WAITED FOR ME TO BE READY AND ON THE NIGHT OF HIS FINAL EXAM I CAME TO HIS ROOM AND SAID "KINGSLEY I WANT TO BE DISVIRGINED BY YOU TONIGHT" HE WAS SUPRISED YET HAPPY.IT WAS VERY PAINFUL BUT MEMORABLE,HE TOLD ME THAT APART FROM HIS WEDDING DAY THAT THIS NIGHT IS HIS MOST HAPPIEST DAY. WE MARRIED ON JULY 13 2008 WHICH WAS MY BIRTHDAY,AND TODAY WE ARE BLESSED WITH TWO LOVELY BOYS. SO IF YOU LOVE YOUR MAN AND HE LOVES YOU TOO GIVE HIM THAT HONOUR TO BE D 1ST FEEL YOU THE WAY GOD MADE U INSIDE, BELIEVE ME HE WILL FOREVER ADORE YOU LIKE MY HUSBAND DO
ReplyDeleteI have the same girlfriend for the past 5 yrs and she's a virgin. I've tried to introduce her to a lot of things sex-wise, but she still hold that thought that if u're dis-virgined, you're lost and to be graded among the worst in existence. But i'm not bothered, she's fun to be with and i'm patient until she's ready (not to pressure her, i do outside runs too).
ReplyDeletethe 5 stated reasons does not make sense to me in relation to realities among our youths of today. Most guys/men really go for virgins believing the 'tighter the better' and there is a great opportunity for the man to play d don and the professional.Finally who told you that most men are more comfortable with wild girls who have seen it all and done it all?
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