MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE WHEN HAVING SEX

Assuming he can get a raging hard on when it suits you. Contrary to popular belief, men can’t just flip a switch and get it up because you decided to stop being a frigid b***h. Getting it hard is your job. I suggest you figure it out.

 Thinking that kissing needs to be this sweet romantic thing all the time. Sometimes pressing your lips against your partner’s mouth while you get off is the hot. It depends on the situation.

 Leaving him responsible for your o****m. You know what gets you off. Tell him. If you don’t, it’s your own fault when he’s snoozing and you’re all wound up.

Expecting him to cuddle. Men and women are wired differently. s*x makes most women want to talk and bond and all that c**p. It makes men pass out. It’s a biological thing. Stop fighting it, and stop holding it over his head, it’s not his fault.

 Expecting him to fall asleep with you in his arms. That c**p is uncomfortable after awhile. A little snuggling isn’t unreasonable, but when it’s time to actually sleep? An arm draped over you should suffice.

Expecting him to always lay on the charm and romance. Sometimes, that’s nice. Sometimes. But expecting him to be all roses and candles all the time is like expecting you to act like a pronstar all the time. If you’re not willing to do that, don’t expect him to switch for you.

Being selfish in bed. Regardless of the c**p that Cosmo forces down our throats, s*x is NOT just about us. Get over it.

 Using Cosmo as a s*x bible. I don’t know who comes up with half that c**p, but I’m pretty sure they need counseling.

Whining when he pushes your head down on his “one-eyed geelah monster” instead of stroking your hair. Know why he’s pushing, skippy? Because you aren’t doing it right, and have apparently ignored the other clues he’s given you. Pay attention to the signals that he’s sending you.

Not moving at all. Missionary is not an excuse to do nothing.

Expecting him to undress himself with any amount of grace. He’s about to get some “trim”. Be glad he bothered to take his pants all the way off. If it concerns you so much, undress him yourself.

Not shaving your legs. I’m pretty bad at this myself. But if you want your guy stubble free, you better get out the razor.

Allowing your crotch to resemble the Amazon. Yes, waxing hurts. Yes, some people don’t want to go bare. That’s fine. If you like bush, great. If you have sensitive skin and can’t shave, I feel for you. But for the love of Christ, trim that c**p if you want him to spend any time down there.

Assuming that s*x means a relationship. The only relationship you have is that he has now stuck his hoo hoo dilly in your cha cha. That’s as far as it goes unless otherwise noted.

Withholding oral s*x just because you’re ragging. He didn’t do it. Unless you want him to withhold oral s*x because he’s hormonal, I suggest you get some kneepads.

Expecting him to figure out what you like by what noise you make. Use your words. Have you ever actually heard what you sound like while you’re having s*x? If you heard yourself on tape, and someone asked you to explain what was causing you to make that noise, 67% of women would respond with answers like “I stubbed my toe” “I ran up the steps” or “I was putting up drywall”.

Leaving c*****s up to him. If you’re sexually active and insist that he uses a c****m, I suggest buying a box and keeping it by your bed. Not all men keep them on them, and it’s just as much your responsibility as it is his. If you think that makes you a s**t, you shouldn’t be having s*x anyway. Go back to Jr. High.

Getting your undies in a bunch when he talks dirty. A little fantasy can be fun. If he treats you with respect all the time, you shouldn’t be offended when he calls you his dirty little s**t. When he calls you a w***e and tells you to come, it’s his way of showing that he cares if you get off. Stop being a sissy.

Refusing to be spontaneous. I know this is shocking, but sometimes s*x OUTSIDE of the bedroom is fun.

Dissing quickies because it’s not some slow sensual ordeal. s*x is a dynamic thing. There’s an awesome raw energy when you only have 20 minutes but having to have someone so bad that you do it half clothed against the wall. Readjust your thinking.

Being too much of a scaredy cat to tell him what is or isn’t acceptable before you start bumping uglies. Be honest. If he asks if he can poke you in the butt, and you giggle and say no like it’s an invitation, don’t look surprised when he “accidentally” sticks his “one-eyed geelah monster” in your butt.

Expecting him to undress you. I put a bra on almost every day. I know for a fact that getting them off isn’t always easy. Help a brother out.

Undressing in the dark. If you’re shy, dim the lights, but give the man something to see. No ripping off the clothes and diving under the covers, either.

Refusing to get on top. There’s no reason men should have to do all the work.

Getting that bored look on your face. Men are more visual than women. Give him something to look at. Get on top and arch your back a little bit. Move. Do something to indicate that you 1) are not dead and 2) didn’t suffer a minor stroke rendering you unable to move.

Remember life is short and sex is made to be enjoyed to the fullest; Do you have any question for me? contact me ASAP sex.advice@yahoo.com

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